Saturday, September 8, 2012

Willing Hearts

Willing Hearts: Feeding the Poor in Singapore

Published by The Online Citizen on August 29, 2012
By Creatives For Causes (CFC) -
What happens when a poor elderly woman faces difficulty walking but has to buy groceries and cook daily to support herself and her bedridden husband?
Who takes care of and feed the children of a lower income family when the breadwinner, a single mother, has to work several jobs?
Clearly, our current social assistance schemes are not adequate to alleviate the dire circumstances of the poor entirely.
However, several good Samaritans from Willing Hearts have come together to provide free food and groceries for the lower income in Singapore… every single day of the year.
The Creatives For Causes team follows Willing Hearts on a typical day of their Soup Kitchen operation to cover their daily activities.
Willing Hearts operates their 100% volunteer run soup kitchen. They provide meals to over 2500 lower-income households in over 25 distribution locations such as Circuit Road, Ang Mo Kio, Bukit Ho Swee and many more..
Every day, starting at 5am till 12pm, their soup kitchen prepares, cooks and distributes meals to the needy including the elderly and families in various locations in Singapore.
After a tiring day, at 1pm, the volunteers begin to prepare for next day’s work. They start by collecting bread from charitable bakeries. Following which, they head over Pasir Panjang Wholesale Market where they collect donated groceries for cooking and distribution.
Volunteers loading the groceries into the van.
Tony Tan, 65 is the founder of Willing Hearts Singapore. He runs his own printing business at Commonwealth and started this organisation because he wanted to do something for the poor in Singapore and also because of his late mother who influenced him positively through her active community involvement.
Tony cooking chicken for the lunch and dinner boxes to be provided to the lower income beneficiaries.
“To me, the poor are the most important people in the world as they cannot even afford the most basic need – their next meal. So, we hope to reach out to anyone who requires a meal,” says Tony.
When asked about what motivates him to do this 365 days a year, even on Chinese New Year and Christmas, he says simply
“Why not? The poor need to eat every day, even on special occasions!”
The Soup Kitchen begins work at 5am everyday and is currently the only daily, secular and non-profit soup kitchen based in Singapore. They even go the extra mile to ensure that their food is halal so that it suits the requirements of the Muslim’s lower-income groups.
A volunteer preparing rice
Sandy Ho, 39 (right) a Freelance Makeup Artist and Housewife volunteers her time every weekday.
She shares her experience about volunteering with Willing Hearts with us:
“I was looking for a voluntary job on weekdays and found out about Willing Hearts through SG Cares,” she quipped
“This is meaningful because it really helps people who really need it – those who do not have enough money to even afford their next meal!”
When asked about what kept her coming back, she mentioned that it was due to the people she met here.
“I like it here because all the people here are sincere and come every day despite not having recognition or pay in return,”
Her volunteering stint also has positive effect on her children, both of whom she brings over to help during their school holidays. Her two children are 8 and 9 years old.
“My son told me that he wanted to find a job which required him to work at night or on weekends. When I asked him why, he mentioned that it was because he wanted to spend most of his time helping out like all the people he met at Willing Hearts.”
After cooking, the food are packed into boxes and sent for delivery in different locations in Singapore where volunteers help to distribute to them.
Upon arrival at the delivery points, we could see a group of eager elderly eagerly awaiting their meal. It touched us to see their smiles of gratitude upon receiving the free groceries, food and bottled water.
The food, ready for delivery
Our volunteers distributing the food supplies which includes a packet meal (or two if they need more) , bread, water and groceries (vegetables for them to choose from so they can save money on shopping).
Volunteer Marean Chua (left) helps out daily with food distribution and cooking. She is currently between jobs and was looking for a volunteering opportunity to pass her time. She found the Willing Heart’s call for volunteers via SG Cares as well and decided to come down to help out.
“Besides food, Willing Hearts also tries to support our beneficiaries in whatever way we can. For instance, when we receive donations of adult diapers and wheel chairs, we try to ask around if any residents need it and supply it to them.”
She also shared with us that Tony was an inspiration to her because besides running his organisation, he sometimes brought the homeless back to stay in his home for a short while and helped them look for a job.
When asked about whether the government is doing enough to support the lower income, Tony said something that we felt was very sensible.
“Singaporeans must help other Singaporeans. This is not just the moral duty of the government and in fact, they cannot do it alone. It is the duty of every Singaporean to reach out to the government.”
Willing Hearts Volunteers.

Ending off, we would like to sincerely appeal to the general public to take action to create a more equitable and inclusive Singapore.
Here is how you can be involved to help Willing Hearts:
Volunteer!
If you would like to help out at the various distribution points or the main soup kitchen, please call Tony Tan at 9690 2086 or Charles Liew at 9873 2288.
Donate!
If you would like to make any donations (in cash or items), here is what Willing Hearts currently needs:
  1. Providing more meat and fish
  2. Providing more sauces for the food
  3. Diesel for the vans
  4. Electricity bills
  5. Gas
Currently the kitchen being used at High point Community Services is under lease and the organisation is also seeking a new kitchen space to accommodate their growing number of volunteers and beneficiaries.
For more information, you can refer to http://www.willinghearts.org.sg
And also, support them on their Facebook page at http://www.facebook.com/willinghearts
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This article is brought to you by Creatives For Causes.
We are a pro bono communications agency that provides creative services to non-profit organisations and aim to bring more online attention to less known NGOs in Singapore!
For more information, you can visit www.creativesforcauses.com
Photo credit: Mike Mai, Photographer and volunteer at CFC
 

Saturday, August 18, 2012

Rediscovering Yourself with Prem Rawat

Discovering Yourself with Prem Rawat

I came across this DVD available free in Singapore, simply follow the instructions and sms to Ho at +65 9457 1401. Explore it yourself.



Sunday, July 22, 2012

Search Inside Yourself

3 Things inside us are :
- calm mind
- develop insight
- nourish heart

Calm mind. Why we need to have a calm and clear mind ? It is because only under this condition then we can be happy. It is said that the default state of mind is Happiness.

Develop Insight. Most people frame their emotion, eg I am happy or I am experiencing anger, etc.

Nourish Heart. Develop below qualities :
- Loving kindness
- Compassion
- Sympathetic joy
- Equanimity
Giving end of kindness is happiness. Note that :
Compassion is the happiest thing &
Happiness open awareness.

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Have A Laugh


Last week, the number of visitors to my blog hit a record high of 50. I use to get articles and jokes from my friends. This is one I like because it makes me laugh. Will it make you laugh ?
Read on.

Doctor :  Your husband needs rest and peace. Here are some sleeping pills.
Wife    :  When must I give them to him?
Doctor :  They are for you.

One early morning a mother went to her sleeping son and woke him up
MOM  :     Wake up, son. It's time to go to school.
SON   :     But why, Mama? I don't want to go to school.
MOM  :     Give me two reasons why you don't want to go to school.
SON   :     One, all the children hate me. Two, all the teachers hate me.
MOM  :     Oh! that's not a reason. Come on, you have to go to school.
SON   :     Give me two good reasons WHY I should go to school?
MOM  :     One, you are FIFTY-TWO years old and should understand your
                responsibilities. 
               Two, you are the PRINCIPAL of the school.

Judge      : Why did you shoot your wife, instead of shooting her lover? Defedant : Your honour, it's easier to shoot a woman once, than shooting one man every week.
Position of a Husband Is just like a Split Air Conditioner
No matter however Loud he is in the Outdoor He is designed to remain Silent indoor...


"Husband is one who is the head of the family, but his wife is the neck, and whichever way she turns, he goes."

A man in Hell asked Devil: Can I make a call to my Wife?
After making call he asked how much to pay.Devil : Nothing, Hell to hell is Free.

Why do most Indian women request God for the same husband in the next life?
Because efforts taken to train him in this life should not go to waste!
 

GOD SAID, "I CANNOT BE EVERYWHERE, SO I CREATED MOTHER".DEVIL REPLIED, "EVEN I CANNOT BE EVERYWHERE , SO I CREATED MOTHER-IN-LAW "!!

Employees of a Company are all worried.
Some are roaming around. Some are in loud discussions during office time....
Some Trainees, who had just joined, notice this and enquire about what happened from a senior employee. They ask, "What's going on?"
"Terrorists have kidnapped our Boss"
They're asking for Rs.10 Crores ransom, otherwise they're going to douse him with petrol and set him on fire.
We're going from desk to desk, taking up collection."
One Trainee asks, "How much is everyone giving, on average?
"About 1 Litre".

 
Friend #1: Are you visiting us tomorrow? Do you need directions?Friend #2: I'm all set. I have the address, a GPS, and a GPS override.Friend #1: What's a GPS override?Friend #2: My wife.

 
Australian Medical Association researchers have found that patients needing blood transfusions may benefit from receiving chicken blood rather than human blood.
It tends to make the men cocky and the women lay better......

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

My Sharing on Feng Shui

MY SHARING ON FENG SHUI

Feng Shui is not something new the history can be traced all the way back to 5,000 years ago. I like to share with you some basic knowledge I have on Feng Shui.

Below are simple things you can do :

1. Each morning when you get up, turn on some music or sentimental songs. This will bring harmony to the family. What I will do is turn on the radio set to 97.2 FM.

2. Do charity everyday. How ? You can get a container and a piggy bank. Put some coins in the container. Each day before you go to work, just drop a coin in the piggy bank. Your day should be a smooth one. On your pay day, take out the coins and count. Then write a cheque to a charitable organisation. Put the coins back to the container and repeat the same process. Important point to note is you should them at a prominent place so you will not forget.

3. Name card. Your name card is very important. You should follow a guide from my master when you design your name card. I cannot share it here but if you drop me a mail, I will e-mail the information to you. My e-mail is ychaoloy@singnet.com.sg

Thursday, May 3, 2012

50 Life Lessons

Regina Brett's 45 life lessons and 5 to grow on


Published: Thursday, September 20, 2007, 2:03 PM Updated: Wednesday, October 28, 2009, 9:49 AM

By Regina Brett, The Plain Dealer The Plain Dealer

Print Originally published in The Plain Dealer on Sunday, May 28, 2006

To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me.

It is the most-requested column I've ever written. My odometer rolls over to 50 this week, so here's an update:

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.



4. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.



5. Pay off your credit cards every month.



6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.



7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.



8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.



9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.



10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.



11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.



12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.



13. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.



14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.



15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.



16. Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying.



17. You can get through anything if you stay put in today.



18. A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write.



19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.



20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.



21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.



22. Overprepare, then go with the flow.



23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.



24. The most important sex organ is the brain.



25. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.



26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: "In five years, will this matter?"



27. Always choose life.



28. Forgive everyone everything.



29. What other people think of you is none of your business.



30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.



31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.



32. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.



33. Believe in miracles.



34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.



35. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.



36. Growing old beats the alternative - dying young.



37. Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable.



38. Read the Psalms. They cover every human emotion.



39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.



40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.



41. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.



42. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.



43. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.



44. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.



45. The best is yet to come.



46. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.



47. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.



48. If you don't ask, you don't get.



49. Yield.



50. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.



To reach this Plain Dealer columnist:



rbrett@plaind.com, 216-999-6328





Wednesday, May 2, 2012

A Change Of Pace

A CHANGE OF PACE
According to a Greek legend, in ancient Athens a man noticed the
great storyteller Aesop playing childish games with some little
boys. He laughed and jeered at Aesop, asking him why he wasted his
time in such frivolous activity.

Aesop responded by picking up a bow, loosening its string, and
placing it on the ground. Then he said to the critical man, "Now,
answer the riddle, if you can. Tell us what the unstrung bow
implies."

The man looked at it for several moments but had no idea what point
Aesop was trying to make. The moralist explained, "If you keep a bow
always bent, it will break eventually; but if you let it go slack,
it will be more fit for use when you want it."

So it is with us. Our minds and bodies are like the bow. When
constantly under pressures of everyday life, we can eventually
break. We need to loosen up; we need time to take the pressure off
and relax. For some, that may mean time off to rest and recreate.
For some, it may mean Sabbath. It is no wonder that observing the
Sabbath in Judeo-Christian tradition is a commandment, not a
suggestion.

Have you heard the funny story of the woman who needed a few days
off from work, but knew the boss wasn't likely to give her leave?
She thought that maybe if she acted "crazy," then he would tell her
to go home for a while. So, she hung upside-down from the ceiling
and made funny noises.

Her co-worker asked her what she was doing. She said that she was
pretending to be a light bulb so the boss might think she
desperately needed of a few days off.

Her plan worked beautifully. A few minutes later, the boss heard the
commotion and came into the office. "Oh, my!" he exclaimed. "What in
the world are you doing?" She explained that she was a light bulb
and he told her to go home immediately and rest for a few days.

As she walked out of the office, her co-worker followed close
behind. Their boss called, "And where do you think you're going?"

"I'm going home, too," she said. "I can't work in the dark."

I suppose we all have our ways of getting our needs met. And one of
the things we all need, especially those of us in stressful
environments, is real down time.

Former baseball pitcher Dutch Leonard might have put it a little
differently. He once said that the secret of great pitching is not
speed or the ability to throw curves. It's the "change of pace." The
average batter will soon learn to hit a pitcher who continually
throws the same kind of pitch. But it's hard to hit against a
pitcher who changes the pace of delivery. That change of pace gives
a pitcher the edge over the best of batters.

A change of pace likewise gives us an edge in life. Taking time to
watch the clouds, enjoy a breeze, take a walk, read or just slow
down is necessary if we are to be our best later. And for me, a
regular day of rest is as important as regular sleep. It's a way of
taking the pressure off.

To be my best, I need to be sure to change my pace. It is usually
just the change I need.

-- Steve Goodier